Everything is practice

The Brazilian retired professional footballer player PELE said:
"Everything is practice" 
Choose any field of your choice, what needed to become a master of that field is the practice. Without practice nothing happens.

You choose anything like writing a blog, reading books, writing software’s and codes, making stock investments, playing any game (Football, Cricket, Chess, archery.....), acting, singing, exercise, daily routine. Whatever you select, all needs practice to become the master of the field. The more you practice, the more proficient you become. 




The Japanese archery master Awa Kenzô was once sick for several months, which took him away from his craft. Finally, when he was able to get out of bed on a cold wintery day, Kenzo met with a few students eager to resume their lessons. As he spoke with them, he was suddenly beset with pain and left the room to urinate. His students found him outside, his urine dark red, staining the snow. Kenzo looked at them and said simply, 
“This too is practice.”
Although his remark was rooted in the Zen philosophy Kenzo had studied all his life, its truth was a deeply Stoic concept as well.

Marcus Aurelius, who suffered from numerous painful ailments in his life, almost certainly would have agreed. Because the Stoics believed that everything we experience is practice for our philosophy. Everything is a canvas for our mastery. Illness, archery, politics, the way we arrange our workstations, how we respond to obstacles and offenses.

In our schools, we learn to read and write, we gather the useful information for life but we are not more directed towards the wisdom for life, wisdom on how to deal with the world, wisdom on how to become smart? many similar....

This wisdom we learn from reading good books. And keep continuing the practice of reading and learning. 


A young physician went to a Zen Master and asked to be taught Zen. "Zen is not such a difficult practice," said the Master. you are a physician, treat your patients with kindness, that is Zen. " The physician visited the Master three times, but on each occasion, he was told the same thing. The Master said, " a physician should not waste his time here, go home and look after your patients." It was not clear how such a teaching could remove the doubts and confusion about life that the physician had, and so on the fourth visit he complained to the Master. The Master smiled and said, "Perhaps 1 have been too hard on you. 1 will give you a meditation to practice. " He instructed the physician in Insight meditation. The physician practiced this form of meditation each day for two years. At length he thought he had attained clarity of mind, but the Master commented, "you are not there yet." The physician continued to practice. In time his mind became calm and balanced. Problems and doubt dissolved. Emptiness became the Truth. He served his patients well and without ever knowing it, became free from the concern over life and death. The next time he visited the Master, the Master simply smiled.

It is a recurrent theme of mine that spiritual life is ordinary life. There is no separation between the two. To progress in spiritual understanding there is no need to renounce the world, to give up the ordinary things of life and lock yourself away in a cave or a monastery. To cut yourself off from the world. There is no requirement to become a monk or a nun or a recluse. Living in the world is excellent practice.

To find yourself in a situation like this can be very testing, soul destroying in fact, but in spiritual training we must remember that everything depends upon attitude. If you are doing something you don't want to do, then everything connected with it becomes a drudge. Having to work in such conditions can seem like a prison sentence, but if you see this as an opportunity to train and develop, then everything changes for you. No more drudge, just the chance to practice.

When things go well, there is the moment for you to see your mind and watch your reactions. When things do not go well, there is the same opportunity. It all depends on attitude.

Do you see this as the chance to practice or not? If you say yes, there are no more problems for you. Everything changes. However, if you say no, right there in that answer, is the arising of unhappiness.

Unhappiness begins in the mind of the person who always wants everything to go his, or her own way.

When there is no choice, the only thing to do is surrender, to be open and learn. We cannot always choose the conditions we live under. No matter how hard we try, we are not able to make everything perfect according to our desires, and if we attempt to do this, we will suffer.

Look at the world. Look how everyone follows this path, and look at the results when they fail. Misery, anger and unhappiness. From the position of practice, everything is perfect just as it is. There are no special conditions we must create. Nothing special we must do. Whether we work in a factory, a shop, an office, or stay at home and look after the house and family, right there are the perfect conditions for practice. There is nothing outside your mind and body, and so nothing is outside your practice.

Let go of the desire to make everything the way you think it should be, and be with things as they are. Look at your mind, your feelings, your reactions, and there is your practice.

Learn to be open and accepting. This is the practice of the enlightened mind. The free mind. Choosing one thing over another is the foundation of unhappiness. Let go of choice and be with what is.

In life we all must experience many different conditions, some good, some not so good, some downright painful. All of us are subject to the entire range of human emotions and feelings. It is the same for everyone. Pleasure and pain arise endlessly, and if we are attached to one over the other, we will suffer.

One Zen Master has said,

"The Way is simple, it just means giving up picking and choosing."
Usually we would all prefer pleasant bodily sensation to unpleasant bodily sensation, pain, but the story of the meditation teacher in hospital might help us let go even of this choice. He had awoken at home in the early morning with severe pain in his abdomen. This became increasingly worse as the morning progressed, and finally a doctor was called. The doctor suspected kidney stones, and so sent him to hospital for an examination. Once in the hospital, still waiting to be seen, and the pain intensifying each minute, the meditation teacher, in a moment of desperation, heard himself exclaim, 'Jesus Christ, take this pain away.' Then, from somewhere in the back of his mind a voice replied, 'Take it away, I've only just given it to you.' 



Everything is the opportunity to practice, the painful experiences as well as the pleasant. Learn to look at your life as a gift, the chance to attain full enlightenment. The end of all your suffering and unhappiness, and cultivate a mind that will use every possible opportunity to achieve it. 

To do an experiment, just select any new habit that you want to adopt, and do it for next 21 days without fail, it will become a habit or a part of your daily routine.

Start reading 10 pages daily, and soon you can see yourself reading many books.
Start writing blogs, and son you become more clear in your thought process.
Start investing or SIP regularly, and withing a couple of years, you see that your wealth will start compounding and increasing.
Start a habit of daily walk or exercise, and soon you see that your body come in share(I am working on this habit, let's see what happen)
The list will go on..........

I have written one entire blog post on the above Kaizen technique, Please read.

Remember this today as you go about your work or pursue your studies. All that you encounter--intended or inconvenient--is an opportunity for practice and for improvement. But only if you let it be, only if you open your mind to it.

Disclosure: To write the blog, i have taken the help from here.

Keep reading, Keep learning,

-Mahesh

Getting Angry Wastes Too Much Energy

"You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection."-Gautama Buddha
As a human being, we are not free from biases, human behavior and errors of human behavior. The worst human behavior is envy, jealousy and getting angry.



Getting angry is a human behavior error and it harm more you than others. As we know that everything is a form of energy n this universe. Everything meaning you, me, any physical object or any logical object that is present in this universe is just a form of energy. This concept of energy is best explained by Jaggi Vasudev (Sadh Guru) in his book The Inner Engineering.

What Sadh guru said is - The energy neither created nor destroyed. it just converts from one form to another like what we inhale for living-Oxygen that is exhaled by trees and what we exhale (Co2) is inhaled by trees. so, it just simple give and take or simple transformation of energy from one form to another.

The same is said by Lord Shree Krishna in Bhagvad Gita. In Bhagavad gita the context is different, it is about soul, birth, death and body. What Bhagavad Gita says:
"na jayate mriyate va kadacinnayam bhutva bhavita va na bhuyahajo nityah sasvato 'yam puranona hanyate hanyamane sarire"
The meaning of the above shloka is :

For the soul there is never birth nor death. Nor, having once been, does he ever cease to be. He is unborn, eternal, ever-existing, undying and primeval. He is not slain when the body is slain.

The purport of the above Shloka is :
Qualitatively, the small atomic fragmental part of the Supreme Spirit is one with the Supreme. He undergoes no changes like the body. Sometimes the soul is called the steady, or kutastha. The body is subject to six kinds of transformations. It takes its birth in the womb of the mother's body, remains for some time, grows, produces some effects, gradually dwindles, and at last vanishes into oblivion. The soul, however, does not go through such changes. The soul is not born, but, because he takes on a material body, the body takes its birth. The soul does not take birth there, and the soul does not die. Anything which has birth also has death. And because the soul has no birth, he therefore has no past, present or future. He is eternal, ever-existing, and primeval—that is, there is no trace in history of his coming into being. Under the impression of the body, we seek the history of birth, etc., of the soul. The soul does not at any time become old, as the body does. The so-called old man, therefore, feels himself to be in the same spirit as in his childhood or youth. The changes of the body do not affect the soul. The soul does not deteriorate like a tree, nor anything material. The soul has no by-product either. The by-products of the body, namely children, are also different individual souls; and, owing to the body, they appear as children of a particular man. The body develops because of the soul's presence, but the soul has neither offshoots nor change. Therefore, the soul is free from the six changes of the body.
A simple picture of life rotation or soul journey as per the HINDU Dharma is :



If you look in the science of micro objects then you came to know that everything is built of small fragments particles. and this small fragments are just one form of energy. 



Now, let's think about the anger. What is anger?

Anger or wrath is an intense emotional response usually involving agitation, malice, or retribution. It is an emotion that involves a strong uncomfortable and hostile response to a perceived provocation, hurt or threat. Anger can occur when a person feels their personal boundaries are being or are going to be violated.

Definition suggests that anger is an intense emotion of negative thoughts.

Observe, positive thought motivates you and increase your energy level. The opposite is, negative thoughts consume your energy and drown your energy level and reduce your creativity and motivational state.

"For every minute you are angry, you lose 60 seconds if happiness."

Then why we allow our self to get angry on meaningless things?

The reason is obvious, we don't have control on our biases or behavior and may be we don't know the biases itself.




The energy that we have is limited, so we must use or waste it very cautiously.

There is a wonderful passage in the book : The Boys in the Boat
The book, which tells the story of the University of Washington rowing team in their pursuit of Olympic gold at the 1936 Berlin Olympics, focuses mostly on a young man named Joe Rantz. Rantz had experienced a horrible childhood. His mother died when he was four years old, and his stepmother began throwing him out of the house around age ten. In the end, he would end up abandoned by his family and end up hunting and foraging for his own survival. His father would eventually intervene, only to abandon Joe again when he moved the entire family.

Asked by his fiancée why he wasn’t mad about all of this, how he seemed to take this betrayal and loss so stoically, he tells her:
“It takes energy to get angry. It eats you up inside. I can’t waste my energy like that and expect to get ahead. When they left, it took everything I had in me just to survive. Now I have to stay focused. I’ve just gotta take care of myself.”
And of course, Rantz was well-served by this strategy. A longshot for making the crew at University of Washington, his team would end up narrowly beating Italy in the 1936 Olympics and winning the gold medal. But even if he hadn’t achieved all that success, had he not “gotten ahead”—to use his term—he still would have been right.

The Stoics saw anger as a destructive, draining weight that we add on top of already difficult situations. Like Rantz, they questioned who can afford to burn up so much energy? Things are tough enough, why put yourself further behind just because it might feel good to yell? Or to carry a grudge? Nobody abandons a family because they didn’t know it was wrong. Nobody is going to stop hurting you because you resent them for it. And no amount of rage will ever change the past.

It’s hard enough to survive life as it is. Getting mad about the unfairness or maddening randomness of it all wastes too much energy. Let’s focus our energy on where it can actually make a difference.

Focus to direct your energy in the right direction and see where it will take you in your life. Why to waste your energy on useless things, instead use the energy to increase your wisdom, teach the wisdom to others via physical classes or writing blogs like I write or maintain your health (Exercise).....

In my opinion, this post is very helpful for the person who is short tempered. I have many friends who are short tempered. 

Remember, anger is just an emotion and it is under your control if you want to control it. It is you, who is driving all the emotion inn your body not the body itself drive your emotions. There are many ways to drive your emotions like meditation and whoever have kids, anyway I think they have already learned patience in their life because kids teaches us how we can control our anger.

Let me close the post with the beautiful quote:
"Sometimes you must realize that the world is too beautiful to waste your time being angry or sad when you could be enjoying what life has to offer. "
To reduce or control your anger, reading good books is a best therapy. It will sure help you.

-Keep Reading, Keep Learning
-Mahesh

Freedom : What will you do with your freedom?

Most of the people, on name of freedom, do whatever they want, whatever comes to their mind. But that is not the actual meaning of freedom. We must understand the actual meaning of the freedom, so let's explore the freedom in this post today!
Education is the key to unlock the golden door of freedom. 
George Washington Carver

What is freedom?

As per the definition, the freedom is the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants. To live the life as one wants. It’s a freedom of living, freedom of thinking, freedom of behaving, and freedom of everything that a human being wants to do and be happy but in the boundary of oneself i.e. your freedom should not be a cause of trouble for others, like playing music in loud in mid night, riding bike fast, similar kind of stuff.

It’s your freedom to play the music in loud but it’s not comes under your freedom to disturb others, right!

Your riding fast may cause an accident and it will ruin the life of others as well as yours.



The economist Adam Smith said:
“One individual must never prefer himself so much even to any other individual, as to hurt or injure that other, in order to benefit himself… and who does not inwardly feel the truth of that great stoical maxim, that for one man to deprive another unjustly of any thing, or unjustly to promote his own advantage by the loss or disadvantage of another, is more contrary to nature, than death, than poverty, than pain, than all the misfortunes which can affect him, either in his body, or in his external circumstances.”
What Marcus Aurelius’ said on the misuse of the freedom is :
"What’s bad for the hive is bad for the bee."
We are a social animal and we have to stay in this society, we must not misunderstand the real meaning of freedom and should not misuse it. Think, if everyone starts misusing their freedom? Imagine how the world will be in that scenario?

if we take care of ourselves, if we hold ourselves to high standards, and we actively work not to hurt other people (because we are all citizens of the same world, as Marcus put it), then we indirectly and directly make everything better for everyone.

In a society of world, we have different types of freedom. We have freedom of association, freedom of belief, freedom of speech, freedom to express oneself, freedom of the press, freedom to choose one's state in life, freedom of talking to each other, freedom of religion, and above this all we have a freedom of choice.

But remember, all the freedom you have in your control but the consequences of the action that you take is not in your control.

Freedom is the open window through which pours the sunlight of the human spirit and human dignity. Herbert Hoover

We are free human being; we have freedom to form societies, clubs, and other groups of people, and to meet with people individually, without interference by the government. We have freedom of to choose your religion, you have freedom to choose your career, and you have freedom to choose your life partner. You are a free bird. This is a biggest gift that you have a freedom to choice and no one can take it away it from you, whatever bad the situation will be.

Without freedom, there is no happiness, there is no meaningful life.

But with freedom, a very big responsibility come, that what you do with your freedom?

Doing work for someone else, having a job or loving someone has nothing to do with freedom. Freedom is NOT doing whatever the heart desires right now. Freedom is the possibility of doing whatever the heart desires right now. Freedom is the possibility of breaking free, if and when needed. Freedom is the confidence of not being chained in an unhappy state. Pursuit of freedom is to continuously ensure that one is not relenting control of life to any person or any sort of circumstances.

You are the architect of your life, so whatever happened, or happening or will happen in your life, no one will be responsible. It's you and only you are responsible, so take this responsibility seriously and start doing something good for yourself and for society.

Most of the people say that they are not enjoying their work or job. They should rethink, what enjoyment they are looking in the work or job, and which work or job will give that enjoyment to them, then once they got the true answer then start your life in that direction.

Instead of giving excuses, give efforts. Slow and steady move in the direction of freedom. 

Like each coin have two faces, the term is used in two ways, one in positive way, that we have discussed above and another is the negative way. 

Recall the 9/11 attack on twins tower, honor killing incidents, gang rapes,  accidents by human overconfidence etc.


the intention to write this post is to identify your positive freedom and direct your life energy towards that direction.

Be safe and let other be safe. Enjoy your freedom and let other enjoy their freedom....

The below image will explain everything about freedom:

 


-Keep reading, Keep Learning

-Mahesh